"Just as not communicating creates a vicious circle of negativity, his
being more an authority figure, embracing his role of HOH, creates a positive
one where I function better, become more communicative, and feel stronger
emotionally. I don't have to wonder what he's thinking or where we're at; I just
know. I like knowing what's expected of me and what's going to happen if I screw
up. I feel much more secure."
That quote is from a wonderful blog I follow, "Leaving Logic at the Door", and it states how I feel in such a perfect way, I just had to repost it. Thanks Elle!